The Class Descriptions
AlyssaJade
Barbwire play
This will be a discussion based class with some examples of how to incorporate the use of barb wire into your scenes and the use of barb wire for suspension. Prep along with the risks will be discussed!
Chest loading tk
Typical 3 rope chest loading tk harness with a few tricks! I do my tk harness a little different. I feel it adds a bit of a safty margin to one of the most debated harnesses in existence. This will be a hands on class with 3-4 lengths of rope are recommended.
Building a stronger connection
We will discuss ways i use rope to build a better/ stronger connection between top and bottom. This will be a hands on class with a demonstration.
Two blindfolds and 3-4 lengths of rope are suggested!Barak & Brat_Sheba
Rack'em and Smack'em
Impact play – for those looking to find out where and what to hit!
Have you been searching for obvious spots that will bring your bottom to the tips of their toes? How about those elusive areas that will usher them to the edge of orgasm? Or are you just seeking those fabulous places to add little extra sensation? Want to triple the sensations of your toy bag without spending a nickel? If so – this class is for you! During this class, we will share not only what to strike, but how to strike it! Using different hand forms to create vastly different sensations, changing wrist movements to go from stingy to thuddy and everywhere in between! As we wrap up, we will also share how to translate it from your hands to your toys!
Shiny, Sharp and Pointy!
Better known as beginning Knifeplay, or an intro to sharp and pointy things ~ This class is intended to bring about an introduction to basic knife selection, care and usage within the BDSM scene. We will share our understanding of knife safety, and some different examples of play; Using the whole instrument with the diverse usages of temperature, including non-sharp edges and other sharp objects, to Bladeplay through stroking to shaving to welting and cutting. We also will include aspects of fear play and mindtricking techniques. Time permitting ~ we will include a question and answer session, with volunteers.
Brainchild82
I'm sorry, they are little tied up at the moment - Intro to rope
Intro: Shibari takes time and dedication.... ok now that i've lied to you lets talk facts, rope is easy to get started with and pick up so long as your willing to listen. This class will be on single column ties as well as the "Golden" pattern. a pattern used to make a chest harness, a leg harness, or an arm harness.
Materials/Suggested requirements: 3 lengths of rope 30' long, medical sheers (safety scissors), another human, blanket/floor covering to sit and tie on.
*Marvin Gay plays in the background* - Rope for sex
Intro: ... enough said. NOTE: this class will show you how to tie people for various sex positions. No sex during class please! ;)
Materials/Suggested requirements: It is recommended to know at least a single column tie. 3 to 6 lengths of rope 30' long, medical sheers (safety scissors), another human, blanket/floor covering to sit and tie on. If wanting to do mouth rope, crotch rope, etc it is recommended to have dedicated pieces for that partner.
The hip is connected to the... ceiling??? - Uplines and hangers
Intro: One of the most exciting parts of Shibari is suspension. The feeling of weightlessness as you lose contact with the earth. The question is though, how does one do this safely. This class will be on how to create proper hangers and uplines to attach to harnesses. These uplines can also be used to secure someone to most stationary objects.
Materials/Suggested requirements: It is recommended to know at least 1 chest harness, 1 leg / hip harness, and/or a single column tie. 3 to 6 lengths of rope 30' long, medical sheers (safety scissors), another human, blanket/floor covering to sit and tie on.
Blk_Diamond & His_Amira
Flogging: Rhythm and Body Mechanics
Take your scenes to the next level! You’ve got your floggers, you’ve swung them a few times, now what? A great flogging scene is so much more than just swinging a flogger – In this highly interactive session, Blk_Diamond will teach his own unique flogging style, developed over more than 10 years of martial arts and beating ass. In this class we will cover negotiation, different types of floggers and their use, building a connection, safety, warm-up, and of course rhythm, body mechanics, and building a playlist to pull it all together. His_amira will give tips to the bottoms on how to get maximal enjoyment from the flogging experience. Please bring your toys and an enthusiastically consenting partner and be ready to get some hands-on practice and a new perspective on an old favorite.
Sadistic Caning or, Respectfully, Fuck you Sir
Sadistic caning is more than just delivering heavy hits or welts. It is as much a mind game as it is a physical endurance test for the bottom. We will begin with a short live demonstration of a sadistic caning scene then go over it in detail including: negotiations before the fun begins, safety first during the scene, using music to enhance your sadism, how to play with subspace, incorporating mindfucks and fear play, leaving marks, and using asymmetrical and asynchronous rhythms.
This class is structured to be interactive and provide lots of time for the class to break up into pairs and practice. So bring your canes, bring your consenting bottoms and let's laugh and have a good time
DanAndDawn
Erotic to Extreme: Chemical Play 101
From mild sensations to pain that will make the biggest masochist say ‘never again!’, learn the fundamentals of Chemical play! Lots of hands on opportunities as you discover this underutilized play.
Hypnosis kink
Dan and dawn, certified hypnotist, lead a gathering of both hypno-kinksters and hypno-curious in two part session. We start off with a guided conversation around hypnosis and how it can be used consensually and for kinky fun!
And in part 2, we do so hypnokink! Participate as a Tist or as a receiver, with clear safe boundaries. Don’t worry, you won’t be made to act like a chicken…unless that is your kink!
Mash-Up! Managing multiple power exchange partnerships
Sheila has a sub. And a slave. The slave is also a switch. A switch that tops a puppy. A puppy who owns a boi. A boi who dates Sheila. Join Dan & dawn, who between them have a variety of power exchange (as well as polyamorous and vanilla) relationships as they discuss tools to help navigate multiple partner power exchange and alt relationships. The answer might start with time management and physical logistics, but heart management and sexy logistics need to be accounted for too!
Polyamory Dating Guide
Join Dan & dawn, authors of The Polyamory Dating Guide, as they explore the in’s and out’s of polyamory dating – from finding people (both online and in real time), writing profiles that stand out, how to approach people, and even dating as a couple (including addressing unicorn hunting, ethical considerations, and more)! “There are thousands of polyam people out there that want to date – love is abundant, if you know where to look!”
DebraShade
Emotional Training
Emotional Training covers the following objectives. 1. Understanding Emotional Dynamics: Explore the emotional roles and responsibilities of Tops and Bottoms in a BDSM scene, focusing on trust, empathy, and communication. 2. Emotional Awareness and Self-Regulation: Teach participants how to recognize and manage their own emotional responses during play, including stress, excitement, and vulnerability. 3. Building Emotional Intimacy: Develop skills for fostering deeper emotional connections between partners, and enhancing trust and mutual respect in scenes. 4. Aftercare Techniques: Discuss the importance of aftercare, emotional recovery, and checking in post-scene to ensure the well-being of all involved. 5. Navigating Emotional Triggers: Equip participants with strategies to identify and address emotional triggers during play, ensuring consent and boundaries are respected. This will help participants safely and effectively manage the emotional aspects of BDSM.
Handicapable Pleasures
There is a direct link to sexual abuse and consensual sex acts of individuals with a disability. This workshop is not about discussing such abuse. What it will cover is the alternatives and options for sexual pleasure between consenting adults regardless of mental or physical disability.
DevynStone
ABCs of Authority Transfer
This class is an introduction to the concept and negotiation of authority transfer dynamics. Understand the foundational concepts and philosophies that inform authority transfer and the necessary components that go into negotiating and establishing an authority transfer. What are these relationships made of? What can you get out of them? What can they bring to you?
Forbidden Desires
This discussion is aimed at those who enjoy a little taboo in their taboo play. Whether you're into dark age play, fear play, humiliation, degradation, consensual non consent, or something darker - this is the place to talk about it. Devyn Stone facilitates the discussion pulling in his own experiences with fear play, consensual non consent, and more.
The Reluctant Daddy
This discussion is aimed at those who may enjoy heavy doses of humiliation and degradation in their ageplay dynamics. Join Devyn Stone as he shares his experiences as a Daddy that is a bit unorthodox. The Daddy that aggressively puts his little's hair in pig tails or rolls their eyes at stuffies has a place in ageplay and there may just be a little out there for you!
Your Words Matter Conscious Language
They say actions speak louder than words. In “Conscious Language,” Devyn Stone fosters discussion with participants on how to consciously craft language in media and conversation in order to evoke the values and principles of individuals, organizations, and event spaces. Please note: there will be examples of language that may be harmful to BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, Neurodivergent, and disabled folx in order to demonstrate to attendees what is and isn’t conscious language.
Greta VanderThrust
Pet Play 101
An introductory guide to all aspects of pet play, ideal for both newcomers to the kink and those looking to broaden their understanding. Discover the diverse expressions of pet play, including puppies, hu-cows, forest critters, and more. We explore topics such as headspace, handler activities, and the gear and triggers that help maintain that pet mindset. Goddess Greta is not only a Leather Pup themself but is the proud full dynamic owner and handler of her primal submissive. One of her favorite things is helping new pets discover their inner wild side and find the pet space that resonates with them.
Waxplay 101
The essentials of creating a wax scene, including safety techniques, necessary supplies, and cleanup. You’ll learn about the types of candles and wax suitable for skin use, as well as methods to control and intensify your wax play experience. Discover how to use wax play to tantalize and elevate your scenes beyond mere pain exploration. By incorporating elements like fear play, intention setting, and objectification - you can tailor wax play to cater to various sensibilities and desires. Goddess Greta is a wax top and Dominatrix who enjoys bringing elements of Ritual Magick and Worship to wax scenes.
He11oSweetie
"Did you hook up with an octopus?" Fire Cupping 101!
Let's talk about those marks! From negotiation to aftercare we'll be going over safety and theory behind cupping! A broad strokes view of the history and relevance of cupping is included, however this class has the goal of getting people applying cups by the end and includes a demonstration.
Hardwood Hotness- Paddles 101!
Paddles can seem so intimidating from across the room when we hear that crack or pop, but they can also be intimate, cathartic, and make a fantastic addition to any toybag! Let's talk saftey! Positions! Pacing! Stingy vs Thuddy! Aftercare!
Queer Caucus
The Queer Caucus started in the late 20teens and happens monthly in St Louis, at the event we recap our highs/lows from the weekend and hold space for lived experiences and connecting with Queer attendees.
BlueAlaska, Jin_Roh & KissAhhMee
Orchestrating Chaos: Crafting Large Group Scenes
Ready to explore the complex yet thrilling world of large group scenes? Whether you’re an experienced Top, bottom, or curious voyeur, this class, led by Jin_Roh, BlueAlaska and KissAhhMee, will teach you how to master the art of crafting dynamic and immersive group scenes that leave every participant feeling engaged and satisfied.
Orchestrating Chaos balances both the logistical and psychological aspects of group play, providing insight into how to manage multiple participants, roles, and energy flow in a scene. You’ll learn how to seamlessly coordinate the many moving parts—from Tops, bottoms, and spotters to voyeurs—all while maintaining focus on clear communication, organization, and creativity.
Safety and consent are at the heart of every successful group scene, and this class will highlight the importance of thorough negotiation with each participant. Attendees will walk away with the tools needed to plan and execute group dynamics that are fun, consensual and risk aware.
The class combines lecture, demonstration, and potential hands-on practice, giving you the opportunity to explore how to integrate these principles into your own scenes. With plenty of time for Q&A, you’ll leave ready to tackle group play with confidence and clarity.”
Twisted Predicaments: Exploring Sadistic Predicament Play
Curious about how to trap your bottom in the perfect predicament? Join Jin_Roh, BlueAlaska & KissAhhMee for a deep dive into the art of sadistic predicament play—a thrilling combination of psychological torment and physical tension. Designed for anyone interested in kink, this class will explore how to craft scenes that leave your bottom stuck between a rock and a hard place, both mentally and physically.
Through a mix of lecture and live demonstration, this session provides insight into balancing intense control with risk-aware fun. Bring your questions—there will be a healthy amount of Q&A to ensure you walk away ready to apply what you’ve learned.
KinkMedic
Pressure Points - An Owners Manual
“Pressure Points - An Owners Manual” is a class which focuses heavily on pressure points and how to utilize them to make the most of your scene. There is a significant amount of time spent covering the anatomy & physiology of pressure points, to prevent injury that may result from poor execution. Throughout the class, there is open discussion on how to best apply each pressure point to a scene.
Putting the “Rough” in Rough Body Play
“Putting the ‘Rough’ in Rough Body Play” is a class in rough body play. This is an anatomy intensive class that covers the use of various body parts as a striking tool and the appropriate locations for those strikes. Some pressure points are covered, but the bulk of the class covers safe impact play as it pertains to any contact made between two people without the use of a tool/toy.
Teaching Elements:
Safety issues related to impact play
Striking components: Both closed and open hand, elbows, feet and forearm
Locations of strikes and considerations for large vs. small muscle groups
Applying it to a scene
PharmaKinkology & Medical Negotiation
“PharmaKinkology” is for anyone who wants to have a better understanding of how certain prescription medications may affect play/scenes. During this class, we will cover everything from blood pressure to diabetes medications. First we will explore how a medication works and then take a look into how it may or may not cause problems for us during play. We will also discuss some ethical dilemmas that are likely to occur with certain types of prescription medications as they relate to consent.
Teaching Elements:
Types of medication
Chronic versus short term use
Medication issues with certain types of play
Master Wolf & Lea
“Once Upon A Time...” Role Play in a Scene
Who’s afraid of the Big Bad Wolf? Well... that depends which side of the teeth you’re on!
Having spent most of His childhood in and around theatre, it should come as no surprise that Master Wolf loves to incorporate a little drama in His play scenes. Beginning with a “new and improved” practical demonstration with His Lil Red Riding Hood, Lea, Master Wolf will spend this workshop discussing the almost countless ways to “heat things up” with a creative and artistic flare. Topics such as theatrical individual play scenes, hosting theme parties, role-playing, and the importance of simple details like music, lighting, props, and limited décor will be presented.
MelancholyGhost
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory is a form of sensation play. It is the art of removing one more sense to heighten others to stimuli. This can cause a feeling of erotic touch, a feeling of unknowing, also a feeling of helplessness. Sensory deprivation involves trust, deep negotiation, and an understanding of body language between partners.
Learn how to play with a consenting play partner's senses through music and other sounds, sense of smell and taste with foods, touch by making it pleasurable or painful whichever they prefer, play with what they are seeing through various methods of sensory deprivation
Mental Chess: Playing with Brats
Brats are a hybrid of submission and playful defiance. They are always poking and prodding trying to get you to play with them. They want to be punished but they need a good reason why and they will provide it. A brat will dig a big hole for themselves and it is up to the brat handler to put them in said hole. We will take a twisting and turning ride, how to play mental chess with a brat by thinking three moves ahead. How to play their game but take the control that is needed and consented to in order to handle the brat and bring them where they want to go which is mega brat mode, submission, just laugh uncontrollably, or just getting that nice happy brain boost. Checkmate!
Rosie Sparkles
Build your own Flogger
For pricing and pics of the floggers YOU can build --- go to: https://fetlife.com/users/77004/posts/5059093
NOTE --- The decorative knots are not part of this class --- I have no problem teaching it, but it is a “one on one task” and it can’t be done in the time allotted.
Kits must be pre-ordered so as to give me time to cut and prepare your kit just the way you like.
Included in YOUR kit is a custom wood turned and finished handle that you select from a table full of handles. Genuine Leather (finished or suede --- Yes suede is real leather), Decorative wrapping, and the use of all of the tools and supplies needed for you to create the newest addition to your toybag.
Also, kits are available to build Dragon Tail floggers.
Kits can be customized in several ways. Add extra falls, include rivets in some of the falls, choose your colors, and more. Make this your personal souvenir of your weekend at “Exploration into Kink”.
SirWallter
Oppositional/Predicament Bondage
This class will be open to those interested but taught at a 301 level. Information shared about the structural ties and effects on the anatomical and physiological processes of the body while under stress. Other information on negotiation education (RACK), preparation, reading the body during the tie, and after-care will be included in this presentation.
Respect: How deep does the word go in our Lifestyle
The Japanese have a word “giri” it can be translated in several ways, the most simple definition is “respectful, obligation to duty”.
This class will explore the many different facets of Respect. Its dynamics between us and within our communities. Presented in a facilitated way to engage the audience to embrace self-reflection, the intended outcome is to better understand its impact.
“Stages of Development” in the Lifestyle
“Just in the Bedroom”, “Vanilla with Sprinkles/Twist”, “Dabbler”, ”Weekend-Warrior”, “Lifer” are some of the labels spoken when trying to place a person on the Lifestyle continuum.
This class will look at each of the labels and their development level:
- defining the balance of each stage,
- the positive and negative work done by the individual
- the social expectations placed upon each stage,
- and, the indoctrinations of those community expectations.
The intended outcome is to bring a better understanding of the importance of each developmental stage and the respect community should have towards stage acceptance.
Sir_Wieland & sp789
Karada (Body harness)
Ever notice the fancy body ties and wish you knew how to do it? It’s much simpler than it looks. This is a hands-on class for all levels. Get your creative juices flowing! We will be doing simple variations as well as more advanced ties. Please bring your rope. A 50 ft and a few 30 ft would be nice; however, we can do ties with shorter ropes too. No worries if you don’t have any rope, we will bring rope for you to use.
Pallet Wrap Suspension
There is a beauty and mystery to suspending using pallet wrap. We will break down our research and experimentation. What steps do we take and the reasons why. How many wraps does it take? How will it feel when you are suspended? What steps do you take in getting someone down? What will it feel like when you land on the ground? This will be a fun and entertaining.
sweet_nila
"Don’t Be Such a Crybaby"
This class focuses on how predatory behavior, that specific to the ageplay community, impacts ageplayers. We will delve into psychology of trauma, how to spot these behaviors, how to be a good ally and what you can do to heal your ageplay space (little, middle or big). This will be a little on the deep side so please be aware and mindful of your triggers.
"Teacher’s Pet”
Ageplay 201: Intro to Dark Ageplay and playing with innocence. Does the thought of the monster under your bed excite you? Have you ever wanted to be spanked by your professor for “extra credit”? Does exploring roles that generally have some sort of element where you play with age maybe excite you?
Snek & ReadyRuth
Negotiation in long-term relationships
This class is designed for individuals and couples in long-term relationships who want to deepen their connection and explore new avenues for BDSM play. You'll learn how to foster open communication by actively listening, being curious, and withholding judgment, which can create a safe space for sharing desires. The class emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in building intimacy, encouraging partners to turn towards each other and embrace the journey of ongoing exploration and growth.
Participants will also discover several practical methods to introduce new ideas into their dynamic. Special attention is given to the importance of explicit negotiation, ensuring that all new activities and desires are discussed and consensual, even in established relationships.
Snek & Sinn
Florentine with floggers and more
This class on Florentine flogging offers an in-depth introduction to the fun of playing with a pair floggers. Participants will learn the fundamentals of the rhythmic, flowing movements that define Florentine techniques in both the 4-point and 6-point patterns. This class also explores the use of pairs of single tails and similar toys to expand your versatility as a player. The class will cover variations using different weight floggers and pairs of unmatched toys providing insight into how size and weight can affect technique and sensation. You will get hands-on practice in controlling your swings for both precision and effect, focusing on the connection between the flogger and the partner receiving it. Participants are encouraged to bring their own floggers for personalized tips and adjustments during practice. Whether you are new to Florentine flogging or looking to refine your skills, this class will provide a welcoming space to deepen your understanding, develop your technique, and learn how to safely and effectively create a pleasurable experience for your bottom.
Tinker
Little Scouts Troop 314 Mock Meeting
The St. Louis Little Scouts Troop 314 will host a free mock meeting for event participants. During this session, we’ll demonstrate a combo badge, a unique badge style that merges basic scout skills with kink-related topics. We'll cover essential first aid and sexual safety, followed by a hands-on activity where attendees can assemble their own first aid and sexual safety kits.
Being a Successful Solo Ageplayer
Loneliness can be one of the most challenging feelings to face. In the ageplay community, many express the difficulty of finding a Daddy, Mommy, or Caregiver. While it’s not impossible, it can certainly feel that way. This session offers guidance on how to embrace being an AB/little/middle without relying on a caregiver. We'll explore strategies for building personal routines, establishing and tracking habits, and setting up self-reward and self-discipline systems. Additionally, we’ll discuss safety tips for finding a caregiver, including recognizing red flags both online and in person when meeting potential new partners.
Panels/Munches
Dominant Munch
At the event we recap our highs/lows from the weekend and hold space for lived experiences and connecting with Dominant or left side of the slash attendees.
Poly Panel
Submissive Forum
At the event we recap our highs/lows from the weekend and hold space for lived experiences and connecting with Submissive or right side of the slash attendees.
Switch Munch
At the event we recap our highs/lows from the weekend and hold space for lived experiences and connecting with Switches or those that dabble on both sides of the slash attendees.